Oct 16, 2010

when your crush said....

when your crush said marriage is not for him/ her yet....
 IT means that he/she is just not into you!


It is just tips anyway.


We may read lots about these kind of tips. However when we ourself is involving in the event of crushing into someone, our mind just lost its way to nowhere. Our mind may lost its logical, its ego, and start doing stupid stuffs. 


Our mind would also sort of filter of what we want to hear. All we hear is all we want to hear. No matter how many times the person is hinting or tell it to your face, that he/she is just not into you, all the words will go straight to the bin. 


Worst thing is that our mind would juggle around words of a sentence, words of rejection, and turn it into words of acceptance. "You are sweet but there is someone better for you" may turned into "You are sweet, and I think I am the one for you". Scary , right?


Maybe it is why it is call crush, crush the head to the wall and caused permanent head damage and gain the nickname DR. PHD.

6 comments:

Caroline Ng May Ling said...

hahaha! true! Permanent Head Damage! I remember my dean told us bout PHD! wakaka

Caroline Ng May Ling said...

psst! i tot u gonna blog bout ur crush pula. :p

Kelvin said...

This is so true XD

wenn said...

ya..better don't commit to marriage yet if not ready..

[SK] said...

yeah, it's all about rephrasing the sentences to make the other party feel better, and most of the time blaming yourself for everything does the trick.. :p

Sarawakiana@2 said...

Orange crush....paper crush....

life in a crush...

a first crush can have life long impact....and people will tease you for life....it is a part of life and makes life very interesting...but it can be irritating too especially if you don't like the boy.