Pondering "Don't ever compare your boyfriend/girlfriend with your ex."

Usually in tips about relationship, one of the tips will be:

"Don't ever compare your boyfriend/girlfriend with your ex."

Seiously, why would someone choose bf/gf who acts like her/his ex?

I do not think anyone will want someone to remind her/him about her/his ex. It is suffering enough without anyone reminds her/him about the EX. It is better to apply Aloe vera cream on the wound than salt.

Personally, I will want to avoid attracted to anyone who reminds me of my ex. History is better be left alone, and not to be repeated.

I am sure the one you having now is much better than your ex. If you have the tendency to compare, just said "you are much better than my ex, you won't be mine if you are no better."

The End.

However, the pondering still continues....................

Illusion

Illusion, according to Mirriam-webster dictionary 1 a obsolete : the action of deceiving b (1) : the state or fact of being intellectually deceived or misled : misapprehension (2) : an instance of such deception.

It is like putting a cute dog in front of a mirror. The illusion makes the cute dog fights with the mirror, thinking there is another dog in the room.

Or

During Chinese's Winter Solstice Festival, 22 December 09, ate

and

as substitute for 'Tang yuen'. Tang yuen is food made from glutinous rice floor and is made in round shape. Then boiled in hot water, and eaten with crushed peanut.

In Happy Winter Solstice Festival post of Sarawakiana.blogspot.com, it is nicely illustrated how to cook tang yuen.

Pringles and orange is good replacement for 'tang yuen', as it is round and have bit colour.

Not a bad illusion at all.

Or

Treat any unwanted attention as illusion.

Christmas wish to those who celebrate.

 

Merry Christmas to those who celebrate Christmas!

Wish everyone the best!

For my 24 December 09, I drank coffee using Christmas as an excuse.

Caffeine is my forbidden food, because I may become hyper active or numb.

So I use the opportunity to get hang over with caffeine.

If anyone found me walking around with a blank look, or me jumping around, just blame it on Christmas!

Warm regards,

Nana

An Unexpected Gift

Last night, while I was scrolling down Uncle Lee's post of  X'mas Greetings, Happy Holidays To You,

I was thinking, "this post is so special, gifts for Uncle Lee's Friend."

Suddenly I saw my name, I 'WOW!!!'

There is a gift for me. I was so touched at that moment.

It is Vera Wang's Princess perfume.

The present from Uncle Lee to Nana.

Eventhough it is a small gesture, it is special for us who get such virtual gift.

Thank you, Uncle Lee.

Thanks for making the day special for all of us.

To Uncle Lee,

I wrote a thank you comment on your post, however it does not appear in comment column.

Hopefully this post is enough to convey my many thanks to you.

Wish you and your family have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

A kiss for Uncle Lee!