Sometimes, most of the times, we can stop ourselves from loving the wrong person.
"We are just friends." This can be an useful excuse to be closer to the wrong person.
Perhaps I should say.... when there are married man/woman trying to be a friend, this can be the starting point of danger zone buffer.
You might argue that even married person need some friends.....
There is the need of boundary for such friendship. Going out 2 by 2 is a big NO~~~
Most of the time, we need to be cruel and rude to reject such advance from a married person.
In the beginning, we might be just friends. We might think there is no harm of being a friend. But from being just ordinary friend can lead to something and that something can hurt you and that person.
The most common phrase we heard is "I don't have any feeling for my spouse anymore."
Love is blind!
I don't believe love is blind! It should be:
Love is blind and deaf!
By the time we heard "I don't have any feeling for my spouse anymore", I believe that we are blind and deaf.
It is better to avoid than hurt ourselves with empty promises and short term happiness.
So run before we turn blind and deaf!
4 comments:
When I was young many of my older girl friends told me "married men are dangerous men".
And the best advice "hands off married men". I will pass this advice to all young ladies at all times if I have a chance. Actually more than two people can be hurt by this kind of relationship.
How many tragedies have resulted from love is blind and deaf!! Good of you to mention...
Run Forest opsss... Run Nana! Run Nana! Runnnn....
so there is no such thing as platonic friendship once u r married?
people get lonely and tend.....
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