Sometimes, most of the times, we can stop ourselves from loving the wrong person.
"We are just friends." This can be an useful excuse to be closer to the wrong person.
Perhaps I should say.... when there are married man/woman trying to be a friend, this can be the starting point of danger zone buffer.
You might argue that even married person need some friends.....
There is the need of boundary for such friendship. Going out 2 by 2 is a big NO~~~
Most of the time, we need to be cruel and rude to reject such advance from a married person.
In the beginning, we might be just friends. We might think there is no harm of being a friend. But from being just ordinary friend can lead to something and that something can hurt you and that person.
The most common phrase we heard is "I don't have any feeling for my spouse anymore."
Love is blind!
I don't believe love is blind! It should be:
Love is blind and deaf!
By the time we heard "I don't have any feeling for my spouse anymore", I believe that we are blind and deaf.
It is better to avoid than hurt ourselves with empty promises and short term happiness.
So run before we turn blind and deaf!